Emotional CompassMy diary

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Nervousness

Family: Threat and vulnerability

How it differs from similar states

The same physiology as anxiety, but with anticipation of something positive.

How this can feel in the body

A racing heart, restless movements—the same physiology as fear, but your body is anticipating something you want.

It usually comes up when

Anticipating something important: a speech, a date, an exam, a presentation.

What this might be pointing to

Positive anxiety before an important event—the same physiology as fear, but driven by desire.

What you can do with this

Excitement and anxiety share the same physiology. Tell yourself, "I'm excited" instead of "I'm nervous"—research shows it genuinely improves performance. Your body is preparing, not warning you.

Where the name comes from

Excitement is an internal response to an anticipated external event—the same physiology as fear, but with hope.

Not quite it?

Closest by feel — the same ones the compass would show.

Check yourself with the compass

Two minutes, and you will see whether this is really it