Emotional CompassMy diary

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Disappointment

Family: Loss and withdrawal

How it differs from similar states

I expected one thing but got another; there's room to rethink and move forward.

How this can feel in the body

Your shoulders drop, you exhale—your body lets go of an expectation that wasn't fulfilled.

It usually comes up when

Unmet expectations of another person, a situation, or yourself.

What this might be pointing to

Re-evaluating goals; the gap between expectation and reality.

What you can do with this

Disappointment reveals where your expectations were. Ask yourself: Was my expectation realistic? Did I communicate it clearly? Those answers point the way forward.

Where the name comes from

Disappointment arises from the gap between what you expected and what actually happened—whether because of a situation or another person.

Not quite it?

Closest by feel — the same ones the compass would show.

Check yourself with the compass

Two minutes, and you will see whether this is really it