Emotional CompassMy diary

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Numbness

Family: Rejection and shutdown

How it differs from similar states

I feel nothing; emptiness after shock or trauma.

How this can feel in the body

An empty stare, no feelings—your body has temporarily shut down after the shock.

It usually comes up when

Shock, trauma, overwhelming stress beyond your capacity.

What this might be pointing to

Protection from the unbearable: the mind temporarily turns feeling down after a shock.

What you can do with this

Emotional numbness protects you from the unbearable. Don't force yourself out of it. Safety and warmth come first. Your feelings will gradually return.

Where the name comes from

Emotional numbness is an internal protective mechanism—your mind temporarily disconnects from feeling after shock.

Not quite it?

Closest by feel — the same ones the compass would show.

Check yourself with the compass

Two minutes, and you will see whether this is really it